I am very good looking and nice.?

This tactic is ugly only to yourself. Have some self-respect and dignity and be authentic. You will get far in life, relationships, career, family....when you are authentic - be yourself. You can respectfully give signals to women you are not attracted to - no eye contact, body language, or man up and say - 'you seem like a nice person but I'm not interested'. A girl can completely respect that. I have the same problem you do except I am a good looking female and I have found some very nice guys who aren't "good looking" to me but they're nice and I've shared some good conversation and even made some friends. So give the fat, ugly girl a break and don't be so narrow minded and self absorbed that you miss the diamond in the rough.